Ever since she saw her birthday marked on the calendar, Lena has been talking about it and singing her own versions of Happy Birthday To You. We also learned that she had never had a birthday party. That made me a bit apprehensive, as I didn't know what she might be expecting.
Our family tradition is to do dinner out ON the actual birthday and a celebration with family and friends as close to the actual day as possible. Since Lena has no friends yet, we decided to make it family only and take a trip to see Uncle John and Uncle Dan and their families.
So the Sunday before her birthday we met at Pease Park and had pizza and cake. The park has a splash pad and playground for entertainment. You can see from the pictures that she had a great time. Lena insisted on dressing for her party, and she chose her prettiest dress.
Because we opted for a casual family get together, and we were traveling, the cake was not my normal creation. I baked it the night before we left. Big thanks to Aunt Darby for making the frosting. It was yummy! We just put it together at the park. I had to draw the Happy Birthday in with the knife, but as you can see, it worked!
We had a really lovely time at the park. The weather was good, it wasn't as crowded as I expected, and we got to spend some quality time with family. The kids were excited to see Uncle John again, as they have only seen him one other time since we got home from Ukraine.
On her actual birthday, I made doughnut holes as a special treat. I had planned to take her to Clay's Restaurant for her birthday dinner. They have a little farm where you can feed and pet goats, horses, chickens, etc. They also have a huge area to run and play and a large sandbox. Seemed perfect until the temperature climbed to near 100 degrees. So our second choice was Taco Cabana after she said she wanted quesadillas for her birthday. You can see from the pictures that we had some fun.
All the kids tried pico de gallo (which they didn't like) and jalapeños (which surprisingly Lena and Oleg DID like). And we had plenty of time for fun family silliness. At one point Oleg said "I am bathroom," meaning, "I need to go to the bathroom."
I replied, "I thought I smelled something stinky."
Without missing a beat he said, "That is Hanna." I think we all just about lost it laughing.
When we got home from dinner we did cake and presents. The big girls wanted to do the sundae cupcakes for Lena. I think they turned out great. Lena asked for a baby doll, so we made sure she had one. Grandma gave her clothes. The big girls gave her a beach towel with Rapunzel from Tangled. Oleg gave her a water toy for playing in the sprinkler.
All in all a very good first birthday celebration. And in normal kid fashion, she said the next day, "I (wish) mine birthday and presents every day."
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Medical Frustrations
I have about had enough of the delays in getting our medical information. I realize that we likely would have these delays regardless of who was on our medical team, but REALLY.
We got in to the adoption clinic within 3 weeks of coming home. Apparently THAT was the easy part. When we left our appointment, we had orders for blood tests. It took us about 6 weeks to get all the blood tests done. The reason is due to the number of tests ordered and the fact that our little girls are . . . well. . . . little. They could only take 11ml from Lena at one time and 7 ml from Hanna at one time. And then you can only take blood every other day or so. And the ease with which they can take the blood varies with the skill of the technician, the child's cooperation, and other variables.
The kids were great through the whole blood collection thing. Oleg only got stuck once. No problems. Lena and Hanna were real troopers considering how many times they got stuck. Neither one pitched a fit or completely refused. The most we heard from them was a few whimpers and whispered, "Ow, ow, ow." And neither willingly gave up an arm. Not sure I could be so brave myself.
We also had to collect stool samples. Hanna was easy - diaper. Lena thought it was funny, so she cooperated. Oleg was another story. He insisted he was fine and refused for quite some time. I was preoccupied with getting blood from the girls, so I didn't push it. I finally got it last week and sent it to the lab.
Yesterday the nurse called to tell me that Oleg has giardia - a parasitic protozoa most commonly found in untreated water. When I asked, she said the girls' samples were fine. She called in a prescription, and that should take care of the giardia. We will have to do another sample to confirm. Oh, joy!
The big frustration is that we can't get any more of the results until we see the doctor again. And they wouldn't schedule an appointment until they had all the test results. I understand why, but this is really dragging out! I guess if something was REALLY wrong, they would tell us (like the giardia) or schedule us to come in immediately. So, I'm not really worried. But they can't see us until July 7th.
I really don't know how other people get their medical stuff done faster. Our adoption agency requires a medical letter within 1 month of returning home. There is absolutely NO WAY we could do that. We are lucky that they accepted a letter from our doctor stating that the children had been seen and studies were pending. We will have to submit another letter after our appointment stating each child's health status.
So for now we continue to wait. . . .
We got in to the adoption clinic within 3 weeks of coming home. Apparently THAT was the easy part. When we left our appointment, we had orders for blood tests. It took us about 6 weeks to get all the blood tests done. The reason is due to the number of tests ordered and the fact that our little girls are . . . well. . . . little. They could only take 11ml from Lena at one time and 7 ml from Hanna at one time. And then you can only take blood every other day or so. And the ease with which they can take the blood varies with the skill of the technician, the child's cooperation, and other variables.
The kids were great through the whole blood collection thing. Oleg only got stuck once. No problems. Lena and Hanna were real troopers considering how many times they got stuck. Neither one pitched a fit or completely refused. The most we heard from them was a few whimpers and whispered, "Ow, ow, ow." And neither willingly gave up an arm. Not sure I could be so brave myself.
We also had to collect stool samples. Hanna was easy - diaper. Lena thought it was funny, so she cooperated. Oleg was another story. He insisted he was fine and refused for quite some time. I was preoccupied with getting blood from the girls, so I didn't push it. I finally got it last week and sent it to the lab.
Yesterday the nurse called to tell me that Oleg has giardia - a parasitic protozoa most commonly found in untreated water. When I asked, she said the girls' samples were fine. She called in a prescription, and that should take care of the giardia. We will have to do another sample to confirm. Oh, joy!
The big frustration is that we can't get any more of the results until we see the doctor again. And they wouldn't schedule an appointment until they had all the test results. I understand why, but this is really dragging out! I guess if something was REALLY wrong, they would tell us (like the giardia) or schedule us to come in immediately. So, I'm not really worried. But they can't see us until July 7th.
I really don't know how other people get their medical stuff done faster. Our adoption agency requires a medical letter within 1 month of returning home. There is absolutely NO WAY we could do that. We are lucky that they accepted a letter from our doctor stating that the children had been seen and studies were pending. We will have to submit another letter after our appointment stating each child's health status.
So for now we continue to wait. . . .
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Every Body Time for Bed
For a child who whimpers every night when we start our bedtime routine and then won't sleep, Hanna is obsessed with playing "bedtime." Lena taught her a little made up song, and she sings it when she plays. "Every body poro spot." You just sing it over and over. . .and over.
Here's a picture of Hanna playing "bedtime" while lying on a window sill. As you can see, this is a flexible game.
This morning Hanna changed the song to "Every body time for bed." She wrapped herself in a blanket, sat in a chair at the breakfast table, and then lay down across another chair. She sang and sang and sang. Wish I could have gotten a picture or some video.
Monday, June 6, 2011
Lena's Dental Work
Today Lena had some major dental work done. At her check up (which very well could have been the only dental exam ever done) the dentist identified several cavities and a possible root canal in addition to some items we will need to watch over time.
We arrived at the dentist's office a little after 7 this morning. They finally gave her the sedative about 7:50 and took her back around 8am. I sat in the parent's room and worked on blog updates until the assistant came in about 9:15 to tell me that they were almost done and that they actually had less to do than the expected. Praise God! And thank you prayer warriors.
A little while later they called me back to talk to the dentist who confirmed what the assistant said. Then they took me to the recovery room.
Lena was just beginning to stir when I got there. It took about 30 min for her to wake enough to go home. The funny thing is that when she tried to talk with her mouth numb, she actually spoke more clearly than usual. Normally she has trouble with r's sounding like l's. I don't remember what she said, but she said it perfectly with her mouth and tongue numb.
She asked for some water and then said she wanted lunch. That's when we knew she was okay to go home. Once home she ate some vanilla pudding, lay on the couch for about a minute, and then resumed her normal activities. Thankfully, apart from not liking the numbness, she has had no pain or discomfort at all.
We arrived at the dentist's office a little after 7 this morning. They finally gave her the sedative about 7:50 and took her back around 8am. I sat in the parent's room and worked on blog updates until the assistant came in about 9:15 to tell me that they were almost done and that they actually had less to do than the expected. Praise God! And thank you prayer warriors.
A little while later they called me back to talk to the dentist who confirmed what the assistant said. Then they took me to the recovery room.
Lena was just beginning to stir when I got there. It took about 30 min for her to wake enough to go home. The funny thing is that when she tried to talk with her mouth numb, she actually spoke more clearly than usual. Normally she has trouble with r's sounding like l's. I don't remember what she said, but she said it perfectly with her mouth and tongue numb.
She asked for some water and then said she wanted lunch. That's when we knew she was okay to go home. Once home she ate some vanilla pudding, lay on the couch for about a minute, and then resumed her normal activities. Thankfully, apart from not liking the numbness, she has had no pain or discomfort at all.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Life at Home
We are settling into a routine. Thought you might want to see some highlights of the last month or so.
Easter Pictures
I didn't get a lot of pictures, but here is what I have to document the occasion. We dyed 36 eggs on Saturday night after Hanna went to bed. It was a really good time. Oleg turned it into a competition to see who could fill their 18 egg carton first.
About 30 min before we needed to be at church on Sunday, we were hunting eggs in the backyard. That never lasts long, so I was lucky to get any pictures at all. I think we have a video, too, so when I find it, I'll add it to this post.
Unfortunately, I did not get a family picture or even a picture of all the kids together. Everyone looked so good! You'll just have to imagine it.
About 30 min before we needed to be at church on Sunday, we were hunting eggs in the backyard. That never lasts long, so I was lucky to get any pictures at all. I think we have a video, too, so when I find it, I'll add it to this post.
Unfortunately, I did not get a family picture or even a picture of all the kids together. Everyone looked so good! You'll just have to imagine it.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
First trip to Dentist
Well, our first trip to the dentist was eventful to say the least. Vivian had her last 2 baby teeth removed. Oleg, Lena and Hanna had their first cleanings and exams. Don't know anything about their dental care before, so we're considering this their first time. All of them did great and earned high praises from the staff for their behavior and cooperation.
Oleg is totally healthy. All he needs is sealants on his back teeth - like any other child his age. He does have some residual black spots on his teeth, but the dentist says they will come off over time. After his appointment, he played some video games waiting for the rest of us to finish.
Lena is another matter. Her mouth is riddled with cavities. One is so bad, they are considering a root canal. She will have to be sedated to get all the work done, so this is no simple procedure. She also may have to have oral surgery at some point in the future (a couple of years maybe) to remove a growth. It is possible that as her mouth grows and changes the dentist will be able to do it, but it is more likely to be an oral surgeon.
Hanna also has several cavities. And again, one is so bad they are considering root canal. Unfortunately, she is so little that her procedure will have to be done at the Children's Hospital. If she weighed more than 25lbs, they could do it in the office.
Will be scheduling as soon as we can.
Oleg is totally healthy. All he needs is sealants on his back teeth - like any other child his age. He does have some residual black spots on his teeth, but the dentist says they will come off over time. After his appointment, he played some video games waiting for the rest of us to finish.
Lena is another matter. Her mouth is riddled with cavities. One is so bad, they are considering a root canal. She will have to be sedated to get all the work done, so this is no simple procedure. She also may have to have oral surgery at some point in the future (a couple of years maybe) to remove a growth. It is possible that as her mouth grows and changes the dentist will be able to do it, but it is more likely to be an oral surgeon.
Hanna also has several cavities. And again, one is so bad they are considering root canal. Unfortunately, she is so little that her procedure will have to be done at the Children's Hospital. If she weighed more than 25lbs, they could do it in the office.
Will be scheduling as soon as we can.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Making Pizza with Lena
As promised, video of Lena and me making pizza.
This was also Hanna's first experience with pizza. The pictures did not turn out well, so I didn't post them.
This was also Hanna's first experience with pizza. The pictures did not turn out well, so I didn't post them.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
"Where is Lena?"
Yesterday, Oleg wanted to ride his scooter over to the school playground (after school hours). I talked Emma into going with him (not quite ready to let him out on his own). And Lena went, too.
About 20-30 min. later Oleg returned and said to me, "Where is Lena?" I thought he was messing around (because he likes to do that), so I didn't take it very seriously. I responded that she wasn't here and she should be with Emma if she wasn't with him. Then I saw Emma come up the driveway without Lena.
Panic set in. I asked Emma where Lena was, and she said, "She's too slow." So apparently they just LEFT HER!
I put Vivian in charge of Hanna (since the other two CLEARLY were not trustworthy at the moment), grabbed my keys, and went to rescue my child.
I found her easily enough, surrounded by moms (presumably) trying to comfort her. Oleg had also gone back on his bike. Lena was crying silently and scared out of her mind. I picked her up and put her in the car. Then I put her bike in the back. Oleg saw that I had it under control and turned back for home. I had to endure some criticism from those who found her. I just responded that it was more complicated than what they saw.
Once I got her home, I held Lena for about 20-30 min. until she relaxed and responded to me. I told her that she was not in trouble, that the older kids were wrong to leave her, that I love her and was worried about her, that I would always come for her. I don't know how much she understood, but she needed to hear it. She was stiff and emotionally shut down from the time I put her in the car. I just held her and talked to her until she relaxed and responded to me. Oddly enough that was when I asked if she wanted to help me cook dinner.
<<Now she's asking if she can go on a ride in the neighborhood. Must not be TOO traumatized!>>
I tried to explain to Oleg that what he did was wrong. Not sure how that went. He is now grounded from bike/scooter rides in the neighborhood until Cliff gets back this weekend.
Emma knows that we "Never leave a man behind!" Don't know what happened there. Also not sure what her consequences will be. We're starting with no computer time on our next computer day, but I don't think that is enough for the severity of the offense. Still need to talk to Cliff about the whole thing.
Oddly enough, I think this was a "good" thing. It gave me an opportunity to show Lena how important she is to me which is good for bonding. She and I have had some trouble in that department, and this may have moved us to another level.
She's out on her bike now.
About 20-30 min. later Oleg returned and said to me, "Where is Lena?" I thought he was messing around (because he likes to do that), so I didn't take it very seriously. I responded that she wasn't here and she should be with Emma if she wasn't with him. Then I saw Emma come up the driveway without Lena.
Panic set in. I asked Emma where Lena was, and she said, "She's too slow." So apparently they just LEFT HER!
I put Vivian in charge of Hanna (since the other two CLEARLY were not trustworthy at the moment), grabbed my keys, and went to rescue my child.
I found her easily enough, surrounded by moms (presumably) trying to comfort her. Oleg had also gone back on his bike. Lena was crying silently and scared out of her mind. I picked her up and put her in the car. Then I put her bike in the back. Oleg saw that I had it under control and turned back for home. I had to endure some criticism from those who found her. I just responded that it was more complicated than what they saw.
Once I got her home, I held Lena for about 20-30 min. until she relaxed and responded to me. I told her that she was not in trouble, that the older kids were wrong to leave her, that I love her and was worried about her, that I would always come for her. I don't know how much she understood, but she needed to hear it. She was stiff and emotionally shut down from the time I put her in the car. I just held her and talked to her until she relaxed and responded to me. Oddly enough that was when I asked if she wanted to help me cook dinner.
<<Now she's asking if she can go on a ride in the neighborhood. Must not be TOO traumatized!>>
I tried to explain to Oleg that what he did was wrong. Not sure how that went. He is now grounded from bike/scooter rides in the neighborhood until Cliff gets back this weekend.
Emma knows that we "Never leave a man behind!" Don't know what happened there. Also not sure what her consequences will be. We're starting with no computer time on our next computer day, but I don't think that is enough for the severity of the offense. Still need to talk to Cliff about the whole thing.
Oddly enough, I think this was a "good" thing. It gave me an opportunity to show Lena how important she is to me which is good for bonding. She and I have had some trouble in that department, and this may have moved us to another level.
She's out on her bike now.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Second Week Home
This was a LONG week. Cliff left on Monday to work out of the office in Virginia. That left me with the kids. We definitely feel his absence. Most of our time together is good. Some not so good. I can't remember the specifics of each day, so I'll just tell you some of what we've been doing.
We went to play at a friend's house. She has a daughter Lena's age and a son Oleg's age (in addition to an older daughter and a son between O and L). We had so much fun we forgot about taekwon do. Oleg climbed the tree in their backyard (quite well, I must say) and then played some video games. Lena and Hanna played mostly outside in the yard and in the hammock.
The older kids went to Weds night church activities. Oleg earned his TnT shirt and book (after only 2 weeks at AWANA) and was very proud of his achievement. Lena's teacher said she is doing well, too, but needs to learn some boundaries. Apparently she was kissing people. Hanna and I went to the grocery and dropped in on another friend until time to get the big kids.
Friday morning, my mother-in-law helped me get all the kids to the doctor at the International Adoption Clinic at Texas Children's Hospital. She sat in the waiting room with Emma and Vivian while I took the others to their appointments. Whole thing took about 3 hours. Thankfully their service included a Russian translator. All kids are healthy. Good news and not so good news, of course. I learned more about their life prior to the orphanage and us. And the doctor had some action items we need to pursue. Most is normal kid stuff.
We did not do blood work at this appointment. We are still waiting for our insurance to add the kids, and we did not want to take the chance that they would not cover the tests. So we will have to do all that after we get the insurance iron out. I thought it was important to have the kids seen ASAP, so we paid out of pocket (hoping for reimbursement). Don't know if insurance is going to be a problem or not at this point. Not worrying about it right now.
Oh, Oleg also informed me that Lena doesn't like me. I told him is was okay. He said, "it no okay." He's right, but I only meant that she's entitled to her opinion. Then I told him that she is my daughter just like he is my son, Hanna is my daughter, and Emma and Vivian are my daughters. Whether she like me or not, she's here to stay, and we'll just have to figure it out. She's having trouble with limits on her behavior, so its no wonder she doesn't like me. Just wish Cliff was here to take some of the heat with me!
Saturday, Emma and Vivian went on a field trip with their girl scout troop to the ASPCA. The rest of us stayed home. Then later in the afternoon we braved near 90 degree heat for Oleg's first soccer game. He had a good time, I think, and he's pretty good. Surprisingly, I got to watch a good amount of the game. The little girls behaved fairly well.
Sunday we got up early and made the 2+hour drive to Austin to visit Uncle John and his family. We went for Cousin Eli's 5th birthday party. Unfortunately, we missed the cake and most of the party, but we got to spend the rest of the day with them before heading back home. While there we had lunch at P.Terry's, played at John's house, went bowling, and had dinner at Craigo's Pizza. I have a dvd player in my Expedition, so we watched movies there and back to pass the time in the car. It was a long but good day.
Still having some sleep issues with Hanna, but I think we've found a good routine for the older kids. School-wise, Lena has asked for schoolwork, so I need to find the things I have in mind for her and get her started. We're mostly focusing on fine motor skills, building her English vocabulary, and letter forms and sounds. Oleg is doing better with math than I reported in the last post. We just had a language issue to get through. We also have cultural differences in how problems are written or presented that have made math less straightforward. Division facts are solid as is fairly simple long division. Next up is more practice with division and assessing fraction/decimal/percent knowledge. We will have more cultural differences there as well, but I'm prepared for it now! LOL!
We also played in the sprinkler, Hanna had her first pizza, Lena got a bike with training wheels, the older kids did several bike rides in the afternoons (one with Lena), and if I think of anything else we did, I'll add it later.
I have some pictures and videos to share, but I don't have a lot of time to get them uploaded. Will when I get a chance.
We went to play at a friend's house. She has a daughter Lena's age and a son Oleg's age (in addition to an older daughter and a son between O and L). We had so much fun we forgot about taekwon do. Oleg climbed the tree in their backyard (quite well, I must say) and then played some video games. Lena and Hanna played mostly outside in the yard and in the hammock.
The older kids went to Weds night church activities. Oleg earned his TnT shirt and book (after only 2 weeks at AWANA) and was very proud of his achievement. Lena's teacher said she is doing well, too, but needs to learn some boundaries. Apparently she was kissing people. Hanna and I went to the grocery and dropped in on another friend until time to get the big kids.
Thursday night Lena and I made pizza. I have some cute videos, but they are on my phone, and I need time to transfer to computer. So look for that (hopefully) sometime in the future.
Friday morning, my mother-in-law helped me get all the kids to the doctor at the International Adoption Clinic at Texas Children's Hospital. She sat in the waiting room with Emma and Vivian while I took the others to their appointments. Whole thing took about 3 hours. Thankfully their service included a Russian translator. All kids are healthy. Good news and not so good news, of course. I learned more about their life prior to the orphanage and us. And the doctor had some action items we need to pursue. Most is normal kid stuff.
We did not do blood work at this appointment. We are still waiting for our insurance to add the kids, and we did not want to take the chance that they would not cover the tests. So we will have to do all that after we get the insurance iron out. I thought it was important to have the kids seen ASAP, so we paid out of pocket (hoping for reimbursement). Don't know if insurance is going to be a problem or not at this point. Not worrying about it right now.
Oh, Oleg also informed me that Lena doesn't like me. I told him is was okay. He said, "it no okay." He's right, but I only meant that she's entitled to her opinion. Then I told him that she is my daughter just like he is my son, Hanna is my daughter, and Emma and Vivian are my daughters. Whether she like me or not, she's here to stay, and we'll just have to figure it out. She's having trouble with limits on her behavior, so its no wonder she doesn't like me. Just wish Cliff was here to take some of the heat with me!
Saturday, Emma and Vivian went on a field trip with their girl scout troop to the ASPCA. The rest of us stayed home. Then later in the afternoon we braved near 90 degree heat for Oleg's first soccer game. He had a good time, I think, and he's pretty good. Surprisingly, I got to watch a good amount of the game. The little girls behaved fairly well.
Sunday we got up early and made the 2+hour drive to Austin to visit Uncle John and his family. We went for Cousin Eli's 5th birthday party. Unfortunately, we missed the cake and most of the party, but we got to spend the rest of the day with them before heading back home. While there we had lunch at P.Terry's, played at John's house, went bowling, and had dinner at Craigo's Pizza. I have a dvd player in my Expedition, so we watched movies there and back to pass the time in the car. It was a long but good day.
Still having some sleep issues with Hanna, but I think we've found a good routine for the older kids. School-wise, Lena has asked for schoolwork, so I need to find the things I have in mind for her and get her started. We're mostly focusing on fine motor skills, building her English vocabulary, and letter forms and sounds. Oleg is doing better with math than I reported in the last post. We just had a language issue to get through. We also have cultural differences in how problems are written or presented that have made math less straightforward. Division facts are solid as is fairly simple long division. Next up is more practice with division and assessing fraction/decimal/percent knowledge. We will have more cultural differences there as well, but I'm prepared for it now! LOL!
We also played in the sprinkler, Hanna had her first pizza, Lena got a bike with training wheels, the older kids did several bike rides in the afternoons (one with Lena), and if I think of anything else we did, I'll add it later.
I have some pictures and videos to share, but I don't have a lot of time to get them uploaded. Will when I get a chance.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
First Week Home
Well, we're settling in. Everyone seems to be sleeping fairly well and eating fairly well. We do a lot of correcting of behavior - like how they let us know they don't like a certain food or not to run out in the street. Hanna is getting very good at parroting, "on your bottom," as we tell her ALL THE TIME to sit down on her bottom.
After the excitement of church and the shower, we've been to the farm twice, to Taekwon Do, to Target, to the grocery store and to AWANA. Seems they are handling it all fairly well. Both big kids enjoyed TKD and AWANA. We went to the farm this morning for their official Occupational Therapy evaluations. Good news all around. Turns out that Lena is the most affected by sensory issues. Hanna needs some oral motor therapy to help her with the tongue thrusting and sucking difficulties. Oleg just needs some social skills with kids his age (and a physical activity outlet).
When we got home last week, Cliff was not feeling well. On Monday he went to the doctor and found out he has pneumonia. He's now on medication and feeling better, but he's still not 100%. And now, as of this morning, I am running a fever. Not sure where it will go, but I definitely DON'T need to be sick right now.
School work is going well with Oleg. He spends about half and hour or so on an English language program and then does some math. I have determined that his basic facts are solid. He does not know how to regroup in addition/subtraction or in multiplication. We haven't looked at division yet. Not sure how to explain it to him given the language difference, but we'll figure it out.
Lena has no formal schooling, and given her activity level, she's a challenge to "teach". But she does want to learn, so we will figure it out.
Emma and Vivian are a great help. They are tired, as they are not used to this activity level or starting their day before 8 am. But we're getting used to the new routine.
Please continue to pray for adjustment, for health for Cliff and for me (as we are both under the weather), and for me as Cliff leaves Monday for 2 weeks in DC.
After the excitement of church and the shower, we've been to the farm twice, to Taekwon Do, to Target, to the grocery store and to AWANA. Seems they are handling it all fairly well. Both big kids enjoyed TKD and AWANA. We went to the farm this morning for their official Occupational Therapy evaluations. Good news all around. Turns out that Lena is the most affected by sensory issues. Hanna needs some oral motor therapy to help her with the tongue thrusting and sucking difficulties. Oleg just needs some social skills with kids his age (and a physical activity outlet).
When we got home last week, Cliff was not feeling well. On Monday he went to the doctor and found out he has pneumonia. He's now on medication and feeling better, but he's still not 100%. And now, as of this morning, I am running a fever. Not sure where it will go, but I definitely DON'T need to be sick right now.
School work is going well with Oleg. He spends about half and hour or so on an English language program and then does some math. I have determined that his basic facts are solid. He does not know how to regroup in addition/subtraction or in multiplication. We haven't looked at division yet. Not sure how to explain it to him given the language difference, but we'll figure it out.
Lena has no formal schooling, and given her activity level, she's a challenge to "teach". But she does want to learn, so we will figure it out.
Emma and Vivian are a great help. They are tired, as they are not used to this activity level or starting their day before 8 am. But we're getting used to the new routine.
Please continue to pray for adjustment, for health for Cliff and for me (as we are both under the weather), and for me as Cliff leaves Monday for 2 weeks in DC.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Shower
Our church held a shower for us on Sunday afternoon. I can't tell you how much that meant to all of us. We received so many wonderful gifts, notes, and gift cards. Their love and generosity are overwhelming to us. The decorations were lovely and the food was great. They even took into account our gluten free and diabetic needs.
We got everything home with the help of some friends. Oleg loves his new bike. He has been on it every chance he gets. The super soaker was also a big hit. He filled it up, went outside, and "washed" my car with it. Vivian joined him and got the garden hose. They started having a water fight and got completely soaked. They even came in to change to swimsuits and continue the fight. I wish I had pictures or video. They were really having a good time.
And the shorts for him are terrific. He was concerned about not having shorts. Jeans are too hot, and we hadn't had a chance to get him any shorts.
Lena has touched/handled everything we received. She asks, "Me?" with every item. She loves pushing Hanna around in the stroller. Both girls slept in new pajamas and have worn new outfits.
I now have everything sorted into the laundry baskets we received. It controls the chaos - a bit.
We got everything home with the help of some friends. Oleg loves his new bike. He has been on it every chance he gets. The super soaker was also a big hit. He filled it up, went outside, and "washed" my car with it. Vivian joined him and got the garden hose. They started having a water fight and got completely soaked. They even came in to change to swimsuits and continue the fight. I wish I had pictures or video. They were really having a good time.
And the shorts for him are terrific. He was concerned about not having shorts. Jeans are too hot, and we hadn't had a chance to get him any shorts.
Lena has touched/handled everything we received. She asks, "Me?" with every item. She loves pushing Hanna around in the stroller. Both girls slept in new pajamas and have worn new outfits.
I now have everything sorted into the laundry baskets we received. It controls the chaos - a bit.
Sunday, March 27, 2011
First Time to Church
Believe it or not, we actually made it to church this morning. Our morning started early (like yesterday). Got everyone fed, clean, dressed and ready. The kids walked right into church, shook hands with people, and went readily into their classes. At the end of service, our pastor announced that we were home and gave the kids' names and ages. It was a really good morning.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
1st Day Home
Hanna was up in the night, but really slept fairly well considering the long travel day. Lena apparently awakened Oleg before he was ready to get up - early. We had a good morning anyway. Hanna got a little nap, then we left the house and went to the KVPAC Family Day. Our house showed while we were gone (they liked it, but have to sell their house first). We were gone a couple of hours (it was HOT!). Made burgers and tots for dinner, watched a movie, and went to bed.
I am still really tired. I went to bed shortly after Hanna and Lena. Cliff has been great to stay up with the other kids. He is not feeling well and would probably prefer to be in bed early himself.
I am still really tired. I went to bed shortly after Hanna and Lena. Cliff has been great to stay up with the other kids. He is not feeling well and would probably prefer to be in bed early himself.
Marathon Travel Day
So I went to bed, and about 2 hours later, Hanna was awake and not going back to sleep. That meant I didn't go back to sleep. We wrestled for about an hour. I finally got her to relax enough that she could doze a bit more. I went ahead and got up. It was only an hour until the alarm would go off.
I got dressed and made some coffee. I got my Bible and devotional guide and decided to "catch up" on the readings that I had missed. I was really not in the right frame of mind. I was mad that I wasn't getting as much sleep as possible before the trip. But then I got to Friday's reading. Totally refocused me. So I wasn't going to get the sleep I thought I would get. I just had to deal with it. The kids would need me to be calm and patient whether I slept or not. And I didn't have the luxury of being grumpy.
The alarm went off. John and I got everything ready. We got the kids up about 20 min before Andre arrived. We met him at the door, got everything in the car and headed off to the airport. It was a difficult drive just because we had to sit for 30 min. It allowed us to get sleepy again.
At the Kiev airport, we got our boarding passes, ate some breakfast (that we packed), went to the bathroom, and headed upstairs to passport control. THAT took longer than we thought it would, so we ended up being among the last people to board our flight. But we DID get on. Lena slept on that flight. Just 2-1/2 hours to Munich.
Once in Munich, we had to go through security twice, but at least we didn't change terminals. Once through the second security point, we had a passport check. This is where we had trouble. The attendant took our passports and proceeded to declare that we could not travel, because the kids' visas were expired. I just about lost it. Thankfully John stepped in. As the attendant was chastising us for traveling the day after the visas expired, John pointed out that the visas were ISSUED the day before. She disappeared, and another attendant approached and apologized for the delay and explained that the other attendant had mis-read the issue date as the expired date. Once that was cleared up, we barely made the flight to Newark.
This was an 8-1/2 hour flight. Hanna slept for about the first 2 hours (YES!!). I sat with her on the 2 seat side. John had Lena and Oleg in the 3 seat middle section. They did well - playing games on the video console, watching movies (I think), etc. I really don't remember. And we survived the flight.
In Newark, we had to go through customs and immigration before catching our last flight. The embassy in Kiev gave me a packet of documents for each child that I had to hand over. This is where the embassy staff said we "could" have a problem due to the mismatched pictures of Hanna. Fortunately, no problems. Would rather have gone through in Houston. While no one was actually rude, the attitude is different there. We made it through with enough time to get to the gate and call home.
The last flight, both Lena and Oleg slept. Oleg asked me to sit with him. That upset both Lena and Hanna, but I did it anyway. He and I took the 2 seat by the window. Lena was across the aisle, so we could hold hands from time to time. John took Hanna duty - for a while. Shortly after take-off Oleg was asleep with his head partially on my lap. Hanna ended up with me. Lena stretched out with John. We actually had to wake them up to land.
We got off the plane and headed for baggage claim. When we got there, Cliff, Emma, Vivian, and Grandma Johnson were there waiting for us with a big "Welcome Home" banner. The big kids ran to Cliff to give him hugs, then hugged everyone else. We got the bags, got them all in the car, and drove home. Hanna fell asleep on the way, so we decided to go home and make dinner. Fortunately, I had stocked the freezer with a few things for our return. Cliff had pulled out burgers and spaghetti sauce. Oleg really likes spaghetti, so that's what we did.
John went ahead and left for Austin, so dinner was just us Johnsons. We had a good evening.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Headed Home!!!
Packing while the kids sleep. We will be up really early to catch our 6:45 am plane (that's almost midnight CST). Our route takes us from Kiev to Munich, Munich to Newark, Newark to Houston, arriving in Houston about 6PM still on Friday. While the whole Johnson family will go home, Uncle John will still have a 2+ hour drive back to Austin to HIS family.
PLEASE pray that we have a good trip. Not sure how this is all going to work out. We're tired and excited and so ready to be home. It could be great or it could be a nightmare. Pray especially for our passage through immigration.
I won't be able to update in transit, so this is it until we get home. Even then, don't expect much. I'm sure when I'm not sleeping, I'll be chasing kids!
PLEASE pray that we have a good trip. Not sure how this is all going to work out. We're tired and excited and so ready to be home. It could be great or it could be a nightmare. Pray especially for our passage through immigration.
I won't be able to update in transit, so this is it until we get home. Even then, don't expect much. I'm sure when I'm not sleeping, I'll be chasing kids!
Have Visas, Will Travel
Took the kids to a park this morning. Kinda chilly. Hanna likes to swing. Oleg likes to run. Lena likes to show off ("Mama, LOOK!"). We were trying to keep them occupied as we waited for our appointment at the embassy.
Zhenia arrived at 1pm to take us to get new pictures of Hanna. For some reason we were one picture short yesterday, so we're getting new pics made. We were early for our appointment at the embassy which was acutally good. I got the last few things written in on our paperwork (I wanted to confirm with Zhenia what to put), and was the first in line.
When I got to the window, I found out that the pictures we had just made of Hanna were not acceptable. I needed and exact match to the picture I gave them yesterday or the computer wouldn't take it. It would be another 24hours before we could get our visas. I said that was not acceptable. We finally worked out that they would put a smaller size of the same picture with a larger size of the new picture with the paperwork that was going to the States with me. She said I might have a little trouble getting through immigration, but it shouldn't be too much of a problem. I figure the paperwork is all in order, and I have the rest of the copies of the photos, so I should be able to prove that I am her mom. That, and I'll just agree with them that I did it wrong but that I have EVERYTHING ELSE right. I can't imagine that American immigration would give an American citizen a super hard time over the size of a picture when everything else is in order. Then again. . . . . So please pray for us getting through immigration.
After getting the papers turned in, we waited another 10 min or so for our "interview." The officer just needed me to sign the papers in front of him and to see all the kids. Thirty minutes later we had the visas.
While we were waiting I had a chance to talk with some other American adoptive parents. One couple from Ohio using our agency and Zhenia and adopting a cute 4 year old boy. Another from Nebraska who had adopted before. We just exchanged some info while we waited and wished each other good luck. Even though I was first in line, I was the last to get our visas. I figure it was 3 kids versus 1. No worries. I have them now, so we are 100% ready to go home.
Zhenia brought us some gifts before he left us. He will not come to the airport at 5 in the morning, so this was our last opportunity to see him. He gave me a hand carved chess set for Cliff. Two matrushka dolls, a porcelain plate of Kiev, and a fridge magnet. He also gave John a hat with the symbol of Ukraine, a matrushka doll, and a magnet. He made sure he told me that he doesn't usually give his families so many gifts. He just feels especially close to us. After a couple of hugs, well wishes, and goodbyes, we were left at the flat for our last night in Kiev.
John and the big kids are wrestling now. Before he left, Zhenia made sure the older kids know that we are going home tomorrow on 3 different planes and that they need to listen to John and me and stay close to us. I hope they heard him!
In a little while we will go to the Fat House for supper, come back to the flat, try to get the kids to sleep, pack the bags and food for the trip, and try to get some sleep ourselves. Andre will be here at 4:30am to take us to the airport. And then we will be on our way home.
Please pray for some sleep tonight, for us to get up and to the airport on time, for our flights, for managing the kids through the airports and flights and anything else you can think of. Also pray for Cliff and the girls as they prepare the kids beds for our arrival. We will be in Houston around 6pm Friday night.
Zhenia arrived at 1pm to take us to get new pictures of Hanna. For some reason we were one picture short yesterday, so we're getting new pics made. We were early for our appointment at the embassy which was acutally good. I got the last few things written in on our paperwork (I wanted to confirm with Zhenia what to put), and was the first in line.
When I got to the window, I found out that the pictures we had just made of Hanna were not acceptable. I needed and exact match to the picture I gave them yesterday or the computer wouldn't take it. It would be another 24hours before we could get our visas. I said that was not acceptable. We finally worked out that they would put a smaller size of the same picture with a larger size of the new picture with the paperwork that was going to the States with me. She said I might have a little trouble getting through immigration, but it shouldn't be too much of a problem. I figure the paperwork is all in order, and I have the rest of the copies of the photos, so I should be able to prove that I am her mom. That, and I'll just agree with them that I did it wrong but that I have EVERYTHING ELSE right. I can't imagine that American immigration would give an American citizen a super hard time over the size of a picture when everything else is in order. Then again. . . . . So please pray for us getting through immigration.
After getting the papers turned in, we waited another 10 min or so for our "interview." The officer just needed me to sign the papers in front of him and to see all the kids. Thirty minutes later we had the visas.
While we were waiting I had a chance to talk with some other American adoptive parents. One couple from Ohio using our agency and Zhenia and adopting a cute 4 year old boy. Another from Nebraska who had adopted before. We just exchanged some info while we waited and wished each other good luck. Even though I was first in line, I was the last to get our visas. I figure it was 3 kids versus 1. No worries. I have them now, so we are 100% ready to go home.
Zhenia brought us some gifts before he left us. He will not come to the airport at 5 in the morning, so this was our last opportunity to see him. He gave me a hand carved chess set for Cliff. Two matrushka dolls, a porcelain plate of Kiev, and a fridge magnet. He also gave John a hat with the symbol of Ukraine, a matrushka doll, and a magnet. He made sure he told me that he doesn't usually give his families so many gifts. He just feels especially close to us. After a couple of hugs, well wishes, and goodbyes, we were left at the flat for our last night in Kiev.
John and the big kids are wrestling now. Before he left, Zhenia made sure the older kids know that we are going home tomorrow on 3 different planes and that they need to listen to John and me and stay close to us. I hope they heard him!
In a little while we will go to the Fat House for supper, come back to the flat, try to get the kids to sleep, pack the bags and food for the trip, and try to get some sleep ourselves. Andre will be here at 4:30am to take us to the airport. And then we will be on our way home.
Please pray for some sleep tonight, for us to get up and to the airport on time, for our flights, for managing the kids through the airports and flights and anything else you can think of. Also pray for Cliff and the girls as they prepare the kids beds for our arrival. We will be in Houston around 6pm Friday night.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Embassy
We slept until about 7:15 this morning. Amazing! We got up and got our day started with some oatmeal. Predictably Hanna loved it, Lena refused (then ate it after she saw Hanna eating it), and Oleg tried it but didn't like it (he's not much of a breakfast guy).
Zhenia arrived about 10 to take us to the embassy. I didn't realize that he would not be going in with us. That unnerved me a bit, but it was okay.
We had a bit of trouble getting through security. We didn't realize that it would be more strict than airport security, so we had things with us that were not allowed - like our diabetes monitors (that we always have with us) and Oleg's GameBoy - but we also had things in our pockets that we forgot were there that caused problems as well. It really wasn't that big a deal. They took everything, put it in a box, and gave us a claim number to get it when we left. It just took longer to get through than it could have taken.
Once inside, we went to the adoptions section. They took the packet of documents that Zhenia had given me and had me fill out the visa applications. For some reason, I did not have three of them prepared ahead of time. I have 3-4 of every document EXCEPT that one, so I had to fill out 2 by hand. I was shaking the whole time. Excited to be so close to getting the kids home. Nervous about doing something wrong.
I finished the paperwork, paid the fees, returned the receipts to the paperwork lady, and we left. Zhenia was upset with us for causing problems for him at the security station. We didn't do it on purpose, but he didn't tell us what we could and could not have with us. If he had said, "No electronics. Nothing with batteries. No metal. They have a toy room for the kids. Just take some diapers for the baby," we would have done what he said and understood why. Apparently security gave him quite a lecture. Then we got it from him. I understand that he doesn't like to look foolish. Nobody does, but sheesh! He does this for a living. We're doing ONCE. I was pretty peeved with him at the time, but I think I'm over it now. Unless he pursues it. Then I'll give him a piece of my mind.
Back at the flat now. Had lunch. Hanna took a long time to quiet down. Still not sure she's asleep. John took Lena with him to buy some presents for his family. She came back with chocolate all over her face (ice cream). While they were gone, Oleg worked on English. He really likes it, and he works hard. He likes to get 100%, so we will work on something over and over until he gets it just right. He likes being smart.
Not sure what we'll do tonight. Maybe take a walk or watch a movie. We have the morning tomorrow to see some sights with the kids. Then tomorrow afternoon we go back to the embassy to complete the visa process. Flight on Friday is at 6:45 am.
Please pray for the remainder of our time here. That visas will come through without problems. That we can sleep Thursday night and get up early Friday morning to get our flight. That we make all our flights (3 in all). That we can manage the kids through airports and planes. That we clear customs with no issues. And anything else that you can think of to make this as smooth as possible.
Zhenia arrived about 10 to take us to the embassy. I didn't realize that he would not be going in with us. That unnerved me a bit, but it was okay.
We had a bit of trouble getting through security. We didn't realize that it would be more strict than airport security, so we had things with us that were not allowed - like our diabetes monitors (that we always have with us) and Oleg's GameBoy - but we also had things in our pockets that we forgot were there that caused problems as well. It really wasn't that big a deal. They took everything, put it in a box, and gave us a claim number to get it when we left. It just took longer to get through than it could have taken.
Once inside, we went to the adoptions section. They took the packet of documents that Zhenia had given me and had me fill out the visa applications. For some reason, I did not have three of them prepared ahead of time. I have 3-4 of every document EXCEPT that one, so I had to fill out 2 by hand. I was shaking the whole time. Excited to be so close to getting the kids home. Nervous about doing something wrong.
I finished the paperwork, paid the fees, returned the receipts to the paperwork lady, and we left. Zhenia was upset with us for causing problems for him at the security station. We didn't do it on purpose, but he didn't tell us what we could and could not have with us. If he had said, "No electronics. Nothing with batteries. No metal. They have a toy room for the kids. Just take some diapers for the baby," we would have done what he said and understood why. Apparently security gave him quite a lecture. Then we got it from him. I understand that he doesn't like to look foolish. Nobody does, but sheesh! He does this for a living. We're doing ONCE. I was pretty peeved with him at the time, but I think I'm over it now. Unless he pursues it. Then I'll give him a piece of my mind.
Back at the flat now. Had lunch. Hanna took a long time to quiet down. Still not sure she's asleep. John took Lena with him to buy some presents for his family. She came back with chocolate all over her face (ice cream). While they were gone, Oleg worked on English. He really likes it, and he works hard. He likes to get 100%, so we will work on something over and over until he gets it just right. He likes being smart.
Not sure what we'll do tonight. Maybe take a walk or watch a movie. We have the morning tomorrow to see some sights with the kids. Then tomorrow afternoon we go back to the embassy to complete the visa process. Flight on Friday is at 6:45 am.
Please pray for the remainder of our time here. That visas will come through without problems. That we can sleep Thursday night and get up early Friday morning to get our flight. That we make all our flights (3 in all). That we can manage the kids through airports and planes. That we clear customs with no issues. And anything else that you can think of to make this as smooth as possible.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Medical Exams today
We arrived in Kiev about 7:30 am. Andre the driver picked us up and took us to the flat to stow our bags and eat a quick breakfast. Everyone seemed to sleep fairly well on the train. The girls and I had a "room" and the boys had a "room." I slept with Hanna. Lena fussed a bit about not being sleepy but was snoring within 5 min of turning off the lights. Hanna took a bit more, but did sleep. And I slept more than I thought I would.
The flat is in a different location from our first Kiev flat. It is likely the "nicest" that we have had. More on it another time. Pictures, too, if I can.
We arrived at the medical center for 9am appointment and of course had to wait. We saw Dr. Yuri who did a good job of evaluating the kids. He talked with them and not just examined them. I didn't get everyone's stats, but I do have the paperwork, so I can look it up. I do know that Hanna has gained 1.3 kilos since her last checkup in September.
Oleg has a hernia that we will need to have checked when we get home but is otherwise healthy. Lena is healthy. And Hanna is healthy, although he did give us a recommendation for an antibacterial ointment for the spots she has on her arm and face. He thinks they are just a little infected. She also has a spot (not a birthmark) on her bottom that he says is probably nothing but should be checked out at home.
Spent the rest of the day at the flat. I got a nap with Hanna. Lena fell asleep, too. John and Oleg had some "quality time" together that just about drove John nuts (according to John). Supper (chicken, spaghetti with tomato sauce, and pineapple chunks) went over fairly well. Oleg ate ALL of his. Lena ate some and didn't complain about the taste. Hanna eats anything, so she was happy as well. Then baths, a movie (Toy Story 2), and bed. Got a quick skype with Cliff and a good talk with John, and now I'm ready for bed!
Embassy interview tomorrow morning at 10am. It should just be filing paperwork for the visas and for the kids' files. Visas should be ready Thursday, then fly home Friday. Zhenia says we are 98% done. Oleg is ready to be home. Me too!
The flat is in a different location from our first Kiev flat. It is likely the "nicest" that we have had. More on it another time. Pictures, too, if I can.
We arrived at the medical center for 9am appointment and of course had to wait. We saw Dr. Yuri who did a good job of evaluating the kids. He talked with them and not just examined them. I didn't get everyone's stats, but I do have the paperwork, so I can look it up. I do know that Hanna has gained 1.3 kilos since her last checkup in September.
Oleg has a hernia that we will need to have checked when we get home but is otherwise healthy. Lena is healthy. And Hanna is healthy, although he did give us a recommendation for an antibacterial ointment for the spots she has on her arm and face. He thinks they are just a little infected. She also has a spot (not a birthmark) on her bottom that he says is probably nothing but should be checked out at home.
Spent the rest of the day at the flat. I got a nap with Hanna. Lena fell asleep, too. John and Oleg had some "quality time" together that just about drove John nuts (according to John). Supper (chicken, spaghetti with tomato sauce, and pineapple chunks) went over fairly well. Oleg ate ALL of his. Lena ate some and didn't complain about the taste. Hanna eats anything, so she was happy as well. Then baths, a movie (Toy Story 2), and bed. Got a quick skype with Cliff and a good talk with John, and now I'm ready for bed!
Embassy interview tomorrow morning at 10am. It should just be filing paperwork for the visas and for the kids' files. Visas should be ready Thursday, then fly home Friday. Zhenia says we are 98% done. Oleg is ready to be home. Me too!
Monday, March 21, 2011
Traveling tonight
Had a reasonably good night and a good morning. Went for a walk past the Odessa Opera House and around to the Potemkin Steps. Had a picnic lunch and headed back. Weather was partly cloudy, more mild, but cold wind. Zhenia arrived just as we were leaving for our walk, so he joined us and took a bunch of pictures for me. He "liked" my hat. I don't think he really did.
Trying to get Hanna to nap now. Maybe she will sleep some. Trying NOT holding her and just putting here down (and back in bed when she gets out). So far no luck. But it is getting better. Thanks so much for your prayers!
Quiet afternoon, supper at Fat House (maybe with Rachel, Jonathan, Sasha, and Boris), then catch the overnight train to Kiev. PLEASE pray for our travel. The kids have never been on the train before, so it could get wonky. Also we have medical exams in the morning (after dropping our bags at the new flat in Kiev). So we will likely have some VERY tired kids tomorrow.
Should have internet in the flat, but if not, we know we can do wifi at McD's.
Getting closer to home every day!
Trying to get Hanna to nap now. Maybe she will sleep some. Trying NOT holding her and just putting here down (and back in bed when she gets out). So far no luck. But it is getting better. Thanks so much for your prayers!
Quiet afternoon, supper at Fat House (maybe with Rachel, Jonathan, Sasha, and Boris), then catch the overnight train to Kiev. PLEASE pray for our travel. The kids have never been on the train before, so it could get wonky. Also we have medical exams in the morning (after dropping our bags at the new flat in Kiev). So we will likely have some VERY tired kids tomorrow.
Should have internet in the flat, but if not, we know we can do wifi at McD's.
Getting closer to home every day!
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